Book Amory Jane (Offerings)

I have taught hundreds of classes at colleges and universities, retreats, festivals, clinics, organizations, businesses, on television, radio, stages, and at conferences across the country. I have moderated and spoken on numerous panels and podcasts, and have been an emcee and guest speaker for events throughout the Pacific Northwest for over a decade.

As a coach, I help clients with relationship transitions, polyamory peer support, dating profiles/advice, and holding space for individuals, couples, and groups on how to become more attuned, present, and confident in their bodies and their connections with others.

Want to book a workshop or panel? Contact me with your preferred dates. Prices vary on event type. Limited sliding scale classes and trainings available!

Don’t see what you’re looking for below? Email me to create a custom workshop for your organization or event.

Current Workshops (please email to book)

Beyond Monogamy


A growing number of people are exploring alternatives to monogamy, through swinging, polyamory, and other types of open relationships. Whether you are curious about opening up, facing obstacles with polyamory,  or you are a provider who wants to better understand your clients, Amory Jane will help walk you through the challenges and benefits of ethical non-monogamy.

She will discuss different styles of open relationships, talk about how to deal with common issues such as jealousy, resentment, time management, miscommunication, and New Relationship Energy (NRE), and will offer tips on dating/meeting new people, navigating different relationship structures and hierarchies, and coming out as polyamorous.

In this interactive workshop, Amory Jane will guide participants through exercises that help them negotiate agreements/boundaries, design their own ideal open relationships, and practice nonviolent communication for deeper, more fulfilling connections. There will also be the option to hear about real-life triumphs and tribulations of other non-mono people in addition to learning how to find and build community.

Sex & Psychedelics: Erotic Empowerment, Expansion, and Connection (this class is co-taught with James Belle Guest)

“Both sex and psychedelics are ultimately about consciousness, about self discovery, and going beyond everyday reality to that magical place — somewhere over the rainbow, where we feel Divine.” —Annie Sprinkle

Join sex educators and legal psilocybin facilitators Amory Jane and James Belle Guest for an exciting new workshop! Sex, BDSM, and psychedelics may all be used to help us tap into our erotic power and expand our sense of self and relationship with others. Combining altered states may accelerate or intensify effects and sensations, and lead to profound ecstatic states, but there are many things to consider before diving in!

James and AJ will cover: the history of sex and psychedelics, basic brain science and non-ordinary states of consciousness, the importance of set and setting, and potential benefits, risks, and side effects. We will also discuss consent and ethics, accessing altered states through BDSM, and how psychedelics may help us with body image, sexuality, gender expansiveness, relationships, erotic empowerment (connecting to both our own and collective erotic power), and more! 


Back That Ass Up!: Anal Sex 101

Are you interested in anal pleasure but not sure where to get started? Already tried anal play but wanting to learn some fun tricks and techniques? Whether you’re brand new to the wonderful world of anal or already have some backdoor experience, this class is sure to teach you something new!

In this educational and humorous workshop, AJ will confront taboos, go over anal anatomy, prostate, and the G-spot, discuss anal penetration for beginners, and show great positions for anal sex. She’ll also cover safety and hygiene and give you the inside scoop on all the best lubes and anal toys! This class is open to all genders and sexual appetites. Demo optional!


The Joys of Toys

Ever wandered around a sex toy shop and wondered “what the heck is that?” Never fear – Sex Toy Superhero, Amory Jane, is here to answer your burning questions, and then some!

In this class you will learn how sex toys originated and have advanced throughout history. Amory Jane will explain the different types of toys, what they are used for and what they are made from, including vibrators, dildos, kegel exercisers, anal toys, toys for BDSM and more. Of course, don’t forget one of the most important things of all… yes, that would be lube! Amory Jane will go over the different types of lube, as well as the ingredients to be aware of when selecting the best product for you. She will also address how to clean and store your toys so that you can enjoy them for as long as possible.

F*#% My Filthy Mouth: Your Guide to Sexting & Dirty Talk (class developed with Tuck Malloy)

Here’s a workshop all about talking dirty! Are you craving the sounds of your sexiest fantasies? Are the words on the tip of your tongue? Do you want to charm your lover with your dirty talk prowess or seduce with a sexy selfie? Well, get ready to explore the edges of desire, and learn how to spit out all the things you’ve been dying to say, hear, and share.

We’ll cover aural and verbal turn ons, avoids and turn offs, and how to actually get those words out when you’re in the heat of the moment — whether it’s over text or in the bedroom! Words are powerful: they can be kinky, romantic, sensual, naughty, playful and oh so arousing! Get ready for a little roleplaying, a little audience participation, and a whole lot of sweet nothings (aka live demos) from our mouths to your ears. We’ll show you how authentic, inspired dirty talk can lead you or your honey to eargasmic levels of pleasure and increase the playfulness and depth in your relationships.

BJ’s with AJ: A Fellatio Workshop

HEADS UP! Are you a giver who wants to blow your lover’s mind with your incredible oral sex skills? Are you a receiver who wants to learn how to communicate your fantasies and help your partner have fun and be comfortable while going down? Then come one, come all! This is a blowjob class for everyone!

Amory Jane will talk about anatomy, blowjob positions, teasing, mouth and tongue techniques, what to do with your hands, and how to ask for what you want. She will cover sloppy BJs, deep throating, gagging, and playing with power dynamics. She will also share ideas on making oral sex more stimulating and pleasurable for the giver and dealing with issues such as TMJ or neck pain.

This workshop includes a live demo on a strap-on dildo. Bring a pen and paper if you like to take notes, and a dildo from home if you like to practice as you learn!


Sex & Cannabis

With the legalization of cannabis all over the country, more and more folks are exploring how this popular plant may affect their sex lives. From decreasing chronic pain, to increasing sensitivity and arousal, to helping with relaxation and body image, using cannabis has helped many people enhance their sexual experiences.

You don’t have to be a stoner to attend this class, or even need to smoke. Cannabis comes in many forms: concentrates, tinctures, edibles, flowers and topicals (including cannabis lubricant, such as the one made by Luminous Botanicals!). Amory Jane is here to break it all down; in this workshop, she’ll share the current research on cannabis use, talk about differences between THC and CBD, and offer advice on which strains may work best for certain sexual issues. She will also help you figure out which cannabis products and methods of consumption (if any) might be a good fit for you and/or a partner, and she will dive into the real pros and cons of combining cannabis and sex.

BDSM for Beginners*

Amory Jane shares her knowledge and passion of all things kinky with you in this entertaining and playful class on BDSM!

Do you like a little pain with your pleasure? Would role playing make your heart race? Are you turned on by being tied up or delighted by the thought of being dominated? If you’re curious about the wide world of kink and BDSM, this class is for you!

Amory Jane will go over bondage basics, spanking,sensation play, how to use BDSM toys, power dynamics, and more! Demonstrations on role playing and impact safety will be provided, and participants will be lead through exercises that will help them discover their fantasies and kink personalities.

Bon Appetit!: The Fine Art of Cunnilingus

This is a body-positive cunnilingus class for anyone and everyone who wants to learn how to give (or receive) phenomenal oral pleasure.

You will learn about anatomy, arousal, hand tricks, tongue techniques, and why “foreplay” shouldn’t be considered an appetizer (it can be an entire fulfilling meal).  This class will also cover communication and finding your own cunnilingus style, as well as give pointers on how to incorporate toys, temperature, and G-spot stimulation. Walk away with fun ways to kick it up a notch if you’re stuck in a muff diving rut (face sitting, anyone?)!

Like all of Amory Jane’s classes, this class is open to all genders, experience levels, and identities.

Sensational Exploration with Amory Jane

Wanting to spice things up or try something new? Looking for ways to learn more about your sensual self or figure out what a partner likes? This workshop may be for you! Amory Jane will talk all about sensation play, then demo ways to enhance arousal and awaken your sexual imagination. They will show both vanilla and kinky activities meant to provide stimulation to a partner through ALL of the senses: sensual touch and feeding, scents to enhance scenes, temperature play, impact, electricity, sensory deprivation, and a whole lot more.

This class is great for solo exploration or a fun date night in. Participants will have the option to practice from home with what they already have in their sexual tool kit, or with common household items that can be used for kinky purposes. Notice what turns you on or off and start incorporating fresh ideas into your solo play. Watch your partner get aroused on in brand new ways. While participation from home (through text chat only) is welcome, please note that it is completely optional. All you need to bring is an open mind and a willingness to learn some new skills!

Swinging & Threesomes & Orgies, Oh My!

Join sex educator and HUMP! 2015 Film Festival winner, Amory Jane, for a class on partner swapping, sex parties, threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes!

Are you excited about making your group sex fantasies come true but don’t know where to start? Do you and your partner want to try swinging or having a threesome together but are worried about how it may affect your relationship? Well, start learning how to make your fantasies a smart and safe reality with this workshop!

Amory Jane will talk about the differences between swinging, orgies, and threeways (and their unique benefits and considerations), give pointers on how to pick play partners wisely, and will cover important group sex etiquette. She will lead participants through exercises in communication and negotiating boundaries and ground rules, and she’ll also discuss jealousy and other emotions that may arise.

Strap It To Me! Strap-On Sex for Everybody (this class was developed with Gretchen Leigh)

Buckles and straps and dildos, hot damn! Strapping it on can feel a little overwhelming at first. Luckily, strap-on sex is one of our instructors’ favorite teaching topics!

Are you new to the world of strap-ons? Curious about pegging? Looking to gain some extra cock-confidence while wearing a harness? In the market for a new strap-on but not sure which dildo would be the best choice? Join sex educators and HUMP! Film Festival winners, Gretchen Leigh and Amory Jane as they walk you through the ins and outs of strap-on sex! This fun and informative class will cover pegging, how to choose a harness and dildo, penetration, positions for all body types and abilities, how to get more comfortable using your strap-on, and tips for adding a little extra fun for the wearer. It will also include educational and sexy live demos.

Participants of all genders, orientations, size, abilities and experience are welcome.

Carnal Creativity (this class is co-taught with Gretchen Leigh)

Have you been feeling a bit unadventurous during adult playtime? Back on the dating scene and wanting to learn some new sexy skills? Perhaps you just want to learn how to safely get into BDSM, feel closer to a partner, or have a unique date night to celebrate Valentine’s Day. Whatever your reasons, have we got a workshop for you! Join sex educators and HUMP! Film Fest winners, Amory Jane and Gretchen Leigh, for a fun and interactive evening of sexploration.

They say your biggest and best sex organ lives right between your ears; it’s time to put that beautiful brain to use and start having the sex of your dreams! This workshop from She Bop’s dynamic duo of sex ed will focus on kinky fantasies, communication, and keeping things fresh in the bedroom. We’ll cover (and demo!) role playing, dirty talk, BDSM basics, and more.

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